I was chatting with my fellow workmates about our other workmates who are in category of 'men'. Apparently, every time those men have to go out the city for work, they have some entertainment at night and it includes hookers.
What I don't get is that those men are not ashamed to tell stories about what they did, they even look proud, even we know and they know that they are already married men. Sometimes, they told us that they share the hookers. My gosh... I really feel sorry for their wifes and kids.
However, my workmates who I've been chatting with, and who're mostly are married, surprisingly are very understanding about these men's needs. What they said really shocked me "Well, it's natural.. what can you do? Men are all about physic while women are about feelings."
I wonder if my significant other, who always say that I'm the only one, will change into that 'men' category too. If the answer is yes... I'm afraid I can't find the necessity to continue my relationship with him...or any other man EVER. Is this why now there are so many lesbians in this world? Because men in the modern world are just too jerky to have a relationship with?
And maybe that's also the reason why women today are more competitive and independent than women back then. We don't like men to control us, we don't like to depend on men to do things, and certainly we can't trust men.
So why do we still need men? Is it just because of ego? 'If I don't get married, then I'll not be accepted by the society' kind of thing? If you want to open your eyes, you can find many women who are really successful in their life without any man by her side, well... maybe sometimes yes.. but I think the man is only as accessories.
Thursday, April 17, 2008
Blinded Love
This is a blog based on true story.
I have a friend who has a cousin who is a third-person, if you know what I mean.
She, the cousin, has a relationship for 8 whole years with this one man, who's a husband and a father of 3 kids. The man's kids are quite close with the cousin even closer than with their own mom. This man already bought a house, jewels and other things for the cousin.. but he's not going to marry her.
The wife had once confronted the cousin and told her to leave her husband alone. The cousin said "If you can make your husband stops and you can keep him in the house, that's great. I already tried to leave him but he's still looking for me. Ask your husband." and since then, the wife never come to the cousin's house for the 2nd time.
Already so many people told the cousin to leave this man.. the cousin tried but the man cried and begged her to not leave him. The cousin, who's already fall in love with this man, got all smushy and in the end came back to his side.
Tell me... if you are the cousin, what will you do?
Me personally, think that the cousin is quite stupid, but hey.. blame 'love'. After all, it's what makes her blind. The husband is a jerk because he can choose one woman to be loved. And the wife here... is also for the blame and yet is the victim of this whole scene. Why love is so complicated these days?
Can't it just be like one man and one woman fall in love and live happy for the rest of their life?
I have a friend who has a cousin who is a third-person, if you know what I mean.
She, the cousin, has a relationship for 8 whole years with this one man, who's a husband and a father of 3 kids. The man's kids are quite close with the cousin even closer than with their own mom. This man already bought a house, jewels and other things for the cousin.. but he's not going to marry her.
The wife had once confronted the cousin and told her to leave her husband alone. The cousin said "If you can make your husband stops and you can keep him in the house, that's great. I already tried to leave him but he's still looking for me. Ask your husband." and since then, the wife never come to the cousin's house for the 2nd time.
Already so many people told the cousin to leave this man.. the cousin tried but the man cried and begged her to not leave him. The cousin, who's already fall in love with this man, got all smushy and in the end came back to his side.
Tell me... if you are the cousin, what will you do?
Me personally, think that the cousin is quite stupid, but hey.. blame 'love'. After all, it's what makes her blind. The husband is a jerk because he can choose one woman to be loved. And the wife here... is also for the blame and yet is the victim of this whole scene. Why love is so complicated these days?
Can't it just be like one man and one woman fall in love and live happy for the rest of their life?
Unsatisfying Perfection
Have you ever feel so confused, you just don't know what to do next?
This is exactly how I feel this moment. Everything seems alright but yet I feel like I've done nothing right. I have so many plans but I feel like I can't do even just one of those. People around me doesn't care at all about me, at least that's how I feel.
So for me to be happy is to have definite freedom, to have a job that I really love, to have that own place that I always dreamed about, to not care about other people too much, to not care about what my significant other does, to not care about how my family members act, to not follow what other people told me to do, to let my best friends bitching, to have quality time with myself.
Perfection is what I want. I wonder if this is why I feel unsatisfied like now. Maybe... what do I know, I'm just ordinary remember?
This is exactly how I feel this moment. Everything seems alright but yet I feel like I've done nothing right. I have so many plans but I feel like I can't do even just one of those. People around me doesn't care at all about me, at least that's how I feel.
So for me to be happy is to have definite freedom, to have a job that I really love, to have that own place that I always dreamed about, to not care about other people too much, to not care about what my significant other does, to not care about how my family members act, to not follow what other people told me to do, to let my best friends bitching, to have quality time with myself.
Perfection is what I want. I wonder if this is why I feel unsatisfied like now. Maybe... what do I know, I'm just ordinary remember?
Monday, April 14, 2008
Women Emancipation
Women today have made a great effort in showing their emancipation towards men. But the way I see it, women today have grown stronger while men have been weaker by days.
You can look at your surroundings now and believe me, you'll find women who have done all those things that men used to do, like:
You can look at your surroundings now and believe me, you'll find women who have done all those things that men used to do, like:
- Paying for dates
- Asking someone out
- Planning a date
- Having sex just for fun
- Working in the office/factory
- Comfort her significant other who's crying because she's breaking up with him
- Driving a car
- up until... having an affair
- Cooking
- Easy to cry
- Fashionable
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